Baby Showers

It has always been my belief that children are blessings so what better way to celebrate than having a baby shower. A baby shower is a way to celebrate the expected birth of a child by presenting gifts to the mother at a party. The term baby shower is relatively new, however the celebrations associated with pregnancy and childbirth are both ancient and enduring. This tradition is celebrated in many countries around the world and usually only thrown for the first child and only women were invited. However Trini Eventz Planner will show you how to change these rules : )

Women only? Who say it have to be...

Am sure most of you are accustomed to this being a girls only 'lime' but the expectant dad and his friends can also be invited to attend. As with any party we will keep all the guests in mind when choosing everything from invitations to food to activities.

Should you throw a baby shower for only your first pregnancy? As I previously stated I firmly believe children are blessings so why not celebrate each one. It is now acceptable and customary in the Caribbean and other parts of the world to have a baby shower for the second, third or a subsequent child even if its the same gender. Every baby should be celebrated and its a great opportunity to get together with family and friends. What gift should I get for the expectant mom? When you found out your friend was expecting a baby, am sure there were lots of hugs and maybe some happy tears. Now the baby is almost due and you have to get a baby gift, where do you start. Some people may have a gift registry but don't be afraid to stray from the baby registry and look for something special, unique or even a thoughtful DIY gift basket will do the trick.

DIY

Here are six tips when planning a baby shower for the mom-to-be.

• The baby shower should be held shortly before the baby is due, however it is customary in some cultures to have the shower after the baby has arrived.
• If the mom-to-be have family and friends who live far away and can't make it to the shower consider including them for a few minutes during the party using Face-time or Skype.
• If the sex of the baby is not known, neutral colors such as yellow, white, green or purple can be used in the decor, gifts etc.
• For parents who prefer a smaller event consider throwing a 'baby sprinkle' which is a scaled down version of the baby shower, the gathering can be a breakfast or brunch with or without the games.
• Guys can also be included in the fun, whether it be the dad-to-be and is friends or a good pal of the expectant mom.
• It's customary to give party favors to everyone who attends the shower or alternatively prizes can be given to guests who win games. 

Do you have tips you would like to share? Let us know in the comment section.